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Understanding your child
Making sense of giftedness, high potential and uneven development—including the gap between advanced thinking and emotional or organisational skills.

Online parent consultation
Understand their needs. Decide what to do next.
A focused conversation about your child’s learning, wellbeing and everyday experiences—with practical guidance for home and school.
60 minutes · Online · €120 including VAT
Both parents welcome.
When a consultation can help
Your child may learn quickly, ask complex questions or show remarkable ability—and still struggle with motivation, mistakes, friendships or everyday expectations.
Perhaps school sees a child who is doing well, while you see frustration or unhappiness at home. Perhaps you are unsure whether they need more challenge, more support or a different approach.
When advice for other children does not seem to fit, it can help to explore the situation with someone who understands giftedness. A consultation gives you time to connect what you are noticing, consider possible explanations and identify practical next steps.
You do not need to wait for a crisis or have a formal identification of giftedness to bring your questions.
Topics
Bring one specific concern or several connected questions. We focus on what matters most to your family.
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Making sense of giftedness, high potential and uneven development—including the gap between advanced thinking and emotional or organisational skills.
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Boredom, finishing early, disengagement, underachievement and finding learning opportunities that offer meaningful stretch.
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Avoiding difficult tasks, giving up quickly, frustration and helping your child become more comfortable with effort and uncertainty.
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Feeling different, finding like-minded peers, friendship difficulties and supporting a sense of connection.
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Intense reactions, recurring disagreements, boundaries and expectations that fit your child’s needs and development.
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Preparing for teacher conversations and considering differentiation, enrichment, acceleration, school choices or transitions.
The session
We start with your questions and the situations you are seeing at home or school. Together, we explore what may be contributing to them, consider approaches that fit your child and choose realistic next steps.
You can leave with
This is an educational consultation. It does not provide a diagnosis or replace psychological or medical care.

Your host
Gifted Education Specialist · ECHA Specialist · Founder of Beyond IQ
I have spent years working with gifted and high-potential children, their parents and the schools trying to support them.
And one thing comes up again and again: giftedness can be difficult to understand when it does not look the way we expect it to.
A child can be highly capable and still struggle. They can need challenge and reassurance. They can be confident in one area and completely avoidant in another.
My work is about making the research practical, so parents and teachers can stop asking, “Why are they doing this?” and start seeing what the child might actually need.
I founded Beyond IQ to help schools and families move from recognising giftedness to knowing how to respond to it.
Google reviews
Verified public feedback from parents about Beyond IQ, from 11 Google reviews.
Lihi is one of a kind. Patient, actively listening, and really knows how to get to children. She's warm, kind, and professional at the same time. I feel like every gifted child can benefit from her guidance, and I recommend her with whole my heart.
We were confused with no direction on how to assist our gifted son's personal development, even thinking to hold him back although he has expressed his boredom at school very often for more than a year because we were lack of confidence to help him out.
While after having Lihi professional and inspiring advices, we realised that we had many blind spots and misunderstandings on raising a gifted child, with Lihi guidance, we have decided to be a supportive parent and will do our best to help our son to reach his destiny. Thank you Lihi!
Book your consultation
Book a private, 60-minute online consultation with Lihi Engelsman. Bring your questions about learning, wellbeing, friendships, life at home or school support.
€120 including VAT.
Both parents are welcome under one booking.
Pick a slot in the calendar below. You will receive a confirmation from Calendly, followed by a payment link for €120 including VAT. Your place is confirmed once payment is received.